01 The Bridge Before the Blade

How can leaders confront weakness and sin to help saints become more like Jesus without crushing them with criticism? Faithful discipleship requires more than seeing what is wrong. Before difficult truth can be received, leaders must build and maintain a bridge of trust through love, acceptance, patience, careful listening, and servant-hearted care. Andrew Selley draws from Ephesians 4, the ministry of Jesus, and the difference between law and grace to explain when sin must be confronted and when love can patiently cover what a person cannot yet bear. Correction without connection becomes criticism, but grace prepares hearts to repent, mature, and receive the truth. Learn how we create a secure bridge to bringing correction.

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Andrew and Emma Selley standing side by side, smiling at the camera

Andrew is the apostolic leader of Four12 (F12) and the lead elder of multisite, Joshua Generation Church. He has been in full-time ministry since 1996. After serving on the NCMI apostolic team for five years, he founded Four12 in 2011. Andrew is based in California, USA, with his wife, Emma, and their daughter, Enyah. Follow him on Facebook and Instagram.

Sessions

Speaker Steve Martinez smiling and holding a microphone beside a slide titled 'Moved by Compassion'
Jesus’ heart towards people gives the church an example to follow.
Speaker Luke Watson on stage holding a microphone and gesturing, with slide text reading “The Fear of God”
Embracing the fear of God as the foundation of a fruitful and obedient life.
Man speaking at a podium with a microphone beside slide reading 'There Is a King' and 'By Lukas Nakos'
Who is seated on the throne of your life?
Andrew Selley speaking on stage holding a microphone beside a slide reading 'Hurt, but Not Offended'
Hurt is inevitable, but offense should not have a hold on us.
Speaker Rick Neufeld standing at a lectern holding a microphone beside a slide reading 'What Motivates Your Heart?'
Has recognition replaced your first love for Jesus?
Speaker Jonathan Stanfield smiling at a lectern holding a microphone during a conference message titled “Marriage & Intimacy”
Recover God’s good and sacred design for sexual intimacy.
Speaker Luke Watson pointing while holding a microphone beside a slide reading 'Bold as Lions' conference message
God’s presence makes ordinary believers courageous.